By Hannah Wente | Photography by Hillary Schave
They say opposites attract, and Lauren Montelbano and Kyle Julius embrace their differences to support each other in local food businesses — and in life.
The duo met at Oliver’s Public House, where Montelbano was a dishwasher and training in prep and pastry, and Julius joined the staff shortly after. Nine years later, the couple has built a successful marriage and two local catering businesses.
“We had such good chemistry and a team mentality,” says Montelbano. “When you identify somebody who is your ride or die [in the restaurant industry], you hang onto them.”
Montelbano owns The Vibrant Veg, a vegan meal preparation and catering business. Julius works full-time for Kessenich’s as a commercial kitchen planner and launched his side hustle, Chef at Large, an off-grid and private catering business, in 2021. Working in the same field allows them to support each other in a deeper, more meaningful way.
“We’re in the same industry,” says Julius. “When I feel haggard, Lauren can share the misery, or we get to rejoice together. We both understand what it means to make 600 portions for an event!”
At times, the couple works events together — especially when a client wants both vegan and meat entrée options. Montelbano typically runs the front of the house, socializing with guests, and Julius settles into the back of the house, finishing each dish.
“We almost don’t have to talk,” shares Montelbano. “You know what the other person needs. We’ve really worked on our communication skills in our relationship and our business. It provides a canvas to work off of.”
She says their greatest strengths come from their differences. Montelbano has often wished Julius was a sober vegan because it would make life so much easier. However, their devotion to each other has pushed them to deeply understand and respect the other’s value systems. In turn, it has helped them be more open to people that may have different beliefs. They recognize someone can still be an amazing person, even if they see the world differently.
“When you work with someone, your relationship can split,” explains Montelbano. But cheering each other’s success in their respective businesses is something that keeps them going. “We get to see each other shine constantly.”
What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do together?
“Professionally, we dream of having property. People could come have an intimate evening at an on-farm dinner, get rest and respite, and we could use it as an animal sanctuary.” – Kyle Julius
